Tuesday, February 9, 2021

Healing the Wound Lightly

 

Healing the Wound Lightly



In 1991 I transitioned from parish ministry to wider-church ministry on the staff of the Southwestern Minnesota Synod ELCA.   One of my chief duties on the synod staff was to assist the bishop in dealing with the problem of clergy sexual misconduct.  In preparation for this task I spent a week in Pennsylvania being trained by the Rev. Dr. Marie Fortune, whose ground-breaking book “Is Nothing Sacred:  When Sex Invades the Pastoral Relationship” (1989) was leading church leaders to rethink their whole approach to handling this grievous problem.

Previously too many churches dealt with ministerial misconduct by NOT dealing with it.   The focus, all too often, had been on salvaging the minister’s career in order to keep peace in the parish.   In the late 1980s, however, there was a sea change (thanks to persons like Dr. Fortune) that placed a premium on believing and pursuing justice for victims, even if that meant ending ministerial careers and shining the light of truth on congregations and other organizations where sexual misconduct by members of “helping professions” was happening.

Looking back on this era, it seems obvious that churches and other institutions started doing what they should have been doing all along.   But it wasn’t obvious.  Indeed some parish lay leaders resisted the new approach—finagling ways to retain the services of beloved pastors who had abused parishioners, while refusing to allow full disclosure of the misconduct in the congregation.  In her book, Dr. Fortune described this as “healing the wound lightly,” based on a striking passage in the Old Testament prophecy of Jeremiah:

“For from the least to the greatest of them, every one is greedy for unjust gain;

and from prophet to priest, every one deals falsely.  

They have healed the wound of my people lightly, saying,

‘Peace, peace,’ when there is no peace.  

Were they ashamed when they committed abomination? 

No, they were not at all ashamed; they did not know how to blush. 

Therefore they shall fall among those who fall;

at the time that I punish them, they shall be overthrown,’ says the LORD.” 

Jeremiah .6:13-15 (RSV) 

The phrase “healing the wound lightly” has kept coming back to me since January 6, 2021, as leaders of our two major political parties have haggled over the second impeachment of the former president—with many but not all Republicans declaring that it’s time to “move on” from the dreadful event on January 6.  

This week our nation has an opportunity to look at itself in the mirror and pursue the only kind of just peace that will bring long-term healing:   a peace that begins with fearless, full accountability for  the former president’s role in inciting the unprecedented violent assault on our nation’s Capitol.  

 On January 23, 2016 the former president, while campaigning in Sioux Center, Iowa, declared:   “They say I have the most loyal people — did you ever see that? Where I could stand in the middle of 5th Avenue and shoot somebody, and I wouldn’t lose any voters …It’s like incredible.”[1]

This week I will join many Americans in praying that members of the U.S. Senate recognize and declare that no one—not even the President of the United States—is above the law.

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