Wednesday, April 13, 2022

Funeral Sermon for Pastor Richard Radde

 

Funeral Sermon for Pastor Richard Radde

Lutheran Church of Christ the King, Moorhead, MN

April 13, 2022

Scriptures:   Isaiah 43:14, 18-21; II Corinthians 5:16-21; John 12:27-32

 


In the name of Jesus.  Amen.

Two years ago, when we were just entering the pandemic, Richard Radde decided to take another crack at writing his memoirs….something he had TRIED to do a few times earlier in his life, but never got very far…

Then in January of 2020—when Covid19 was starting to confront us with our mortality in ways most of us had never experienced before-- Dick put pen to paper (or more accurately: “fingers to keyboard”) and wrote up one memory a day for nearly three months.   By March 21 he had filled or partially filled 127 pages, which (thanks to Rachel!) I was able to read over the last ten days.

Dipping into these first-person recollections--written in a “sort of” stream-of-consciousness manner by our brother Dick—three themes stood out for me:

First of all, I gained an appreciation for the very real, down-to-earth life Dick had lived.  Born at home in the tiny town of New Germany, MN…he entered the world with his twin brother on August 6, 1933.  Baby Richard weighed 5 ½ pounds and his twin brother Baby Robert weighed 5 pounds.  

When their maternal grandmother--Grandma Kubasch--learned the babies’ names, she bluntly observed:  “Robert and Richard-- Ja,  that’ll become Bob and Dick—horses’ names!”

And most of Dick’s memories were expressed in a similar vein—offering open, honest, unadorned, “back-door views” of a fascinating life well lived.    Always with an eye toward the humorous side of life, Dick’s memoir wasn’t focused on making himself look good—but rather:  noticing the highs and lows in the everyday experiences he had!

There were bright spots, to be sure…especially whenever Dick wrote about the sports he loved—whether football or basketball or his lifelong favorites:    baseball, golf and fishing.  

Did you know, for example, that when he was 12 Dick Radde was the pitcher for his hometown team in the Minnesota State Little League Championship series?

But there were sad and troubling events, as well, that came to Dick along the way…and in his memoirs he delves into a number of them, starting with his family’s hardscrabble life in a couple German-immigrant towns in Carver County, just on the western edge of the Twin Cities.

The young twins, Dick and Bob, lived with their parents in modest houses (the first couple of which were without indoor plumbing), and their father struggled to make a living as a butcher during the early years of the Great Depression.  

Looking back over his dad’s relatively short time on earth Dick described Howard Carl John Radde as “father, drunkard, breadwinner, super athlete” whose last 14 years on earth were not happy.   “He was a lonely man when he died,” Dick recalls.  “I think I was among the few who visited him.” (p. 72)

That poignant observation brings us to a second theme that runs through Dick’s memoir.    From his earliest years and throughout his adult life, Dick Radde consistently had a heart for and stood with folks whom he encountered on the hard edges of life.   

When he was growing up, Dick cared about other kids who were odd or avoided by their peers….kids like his friend Donald who was uncoordinated because he was born with webbed feet.   Dick wrote:  “Donald the kid with the webbed feet, never learned to swim even with such an inborn advantage, nor was he ever able to throw or catch a ball, run, or even walk:  he sort of side-winded and stumbled along.  Sad to say, [Donald] was picked on.  Proud to say, I was on his side and defended him.”  (p. 34)

Donald proved to be the first among a host of marginalized persons whom Dick encountered, befriended and for whom he advocated….for example:

·               A Jewish man who lived in Watertown despite the rampant antisemitism of the community…where in 1945 it was not unusual to hear comments like:  “It’s good we licked Hitler, but we should have let him kill off all the Jews first.”  (p. 32)

·               Dick also got to know

o      Native American neighbors in one of the northern MN towns where Dick pastored in the 1960s…as well as African Americans in Selma, Alabama alongside whom Dick walked  across the Edmund Pettis Bridge in 1965

o      Persons dealing with addiction issues or same-sex attractions who came to Pastor Dick for counseling and friendship…as well as…

o      Active-duty soldiers (when Dick spent a year in Vietnam as a military chaplain stationed about 2 miles from the site of the My Lai Massacre) and retired soldiers to whom Dick ministered as a VA Chaplain--veterans who struggled with addictions or other health issues

Dick opened his arms to so many persons who were “on the outside looking in”—not just because of his moral convictions or political leanings….but first and foremost because of Dick’s understanding of God and the kind of life followers of Jesus are called to live….which leads me to the third theme in Dick’s memoirs—a theme that speaks directly to our aching hearts, minds and spirits today….

3.  The third theme I noticed in Pastor Radde’s memoir, was about treating all his neighbors with grace and unconditional love as a direct consequence of his Christian faith and his calling as a Lutheran pastor…

For Dick, along with most pastors, it started young as he attended a rural parochial school near Watertown, MN.  He and his twin Robert were blessed with a confirmation pastor—John Spomer—whom they actually liked despite the fact that Pr. Spomer made them “overlearn Luther’s catechism with all those extra Missouri Synsod Bible verses, psalms and hymns…and I excelled as a student.”

Dick goes on to say:  “The best thing about [Pastor] Spomer was that he knew the Gospel, preached Christ, [and] he spoke from the heart when he told us what that cross on the steeple on the church meant:  God loves us and will never stop loving us.”

In addition to forming the bedrock of his faith, young Dick also discovered his calling to pastoral ministry, through paying attention to Pastor Spomer:  Eventually I became a Lutheran pastor,” Dick writes.  “Spomer got me going.”  (p. 14)

Of course not all of his teachers and mentors were as clear about God’s sheer, unadulterated forgiveness and grace in Christ Jesus our Savior.  When Dick attended the funeral of LeRoy, one of us best friends from seminary, whose severe depression had led him to take his own life…Dick was greatly troubled by the “terrible sermon” their bishop preached—a sermon in which the bishop declared “there was an outside chance LeRoy went to heaven.” (p. 46)

Later, when he was Chaplain at the Fargo VA Hospital, Dick attended another funeral for a veteran known as “Hunce the Barber”—a man who struggled to stay sober and came to Chaplain Radde often to confess his sins, receive absolution and be fed at the Lord’s Supper.   When the preacher at Hunce’s funeral “told about God’s grace and how the worst of us can still (barely) make it to heaven, although there were some doubts about Hunce” Chaplain Radde had had enough, so he stood up and asked if he could share a Word at the funeral:  “Hunce confessed his sins often.  He received forgiveness.  He communed.  God grant rest to our brother, my friend.”(p. 63)

What Pastor Radde proclaimed to others, he also claimed for himself, and it is in that confidence that we commend him to God’s eternal care and keeping today.  

In closing, I want Dick himself to have the last word from pp. 71-72 of his memoir:   “Jesus came so that the world through him might be saved…Everyone in; all together at last.  No musical chairs…..The army chaplaincy [in Vietnam] opened my eyes to…the universal grace of God.   These different-looking, different-acting people throughout the world all over the place, are brothers and sisters forever, destined to be together by the love that never ends which is the love of Jesus Christ.”

I have nothing more to add except:  Thank you, Laurie, Rachel, and your whole family for graciously sharing Dick with the rest of us.  

And thanks be to God for the life and witness of his faithful servant, our dear brother Pastor Richard Radde.

In the name of Jesus.  Amen.